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Victorian era Language of Flowers

Communicating Forgiveness With Flowers

Dear reader, The Victorian language of flowers is a beautiful way to express forgiveness and let someone know that they are truly forgiven. Here is a guide on how to say “I forgive you” using flowers.

The white tulip is one of the most classic flowers associated with forgiveness. It represents purity and forgiveness, making it a beautiful and meaningful addition to any bouquet. The white tulip is often used to symbolize a fresh start and a new beginning, which is why it’s a popular choice for expressing forgiveness. White tulips are often included in bouquets to express that the person being forgiven is starting anew, with a clean slate.

In addition to these classic flowers, there are other flowers that can be included in a bouquet to express forgiveness. For example, the iris is a flower that represents hope and faith, making it a beautiful addition to any apology bouquet. It represents a desire to move forward and let go of the past, making it an ideal choice for expressing forgiveness. The iris can be included to represent a hopeful future where the relationship can be renewed and restored.

Pink carnations symbolize gratitude and admiration, and can be included in a bouquet to express appreciation for someone’s forgiveness. They represent a deep sense of respect and admiration for the person being forgiven. Including pink carnations in the bouquet is an excellent way to let the person know how much their forgiveness means to you.

The delicate white flowers of the lily of the valley symbolize humility and sweetness, making them a beautiful addition to any forgiveness bouquet. They represent a sincere and humble desire to seek forgiveness and make things right. Including lily of the valley in the bouquet can show the person being forgiven that you are truly sorry and that you want to make amends.

Ultimately, the choice of flowers to include in a forgiveness bouquet will depend on personal preferences and the specific message that one wishes to convey. By choosing flowers that represent purity, forgiveness, and a desire to move forward, one can create a beautiful and heartfelt message of forgiveness using the Victorian language of flowers. A bouquet of white tulips, yellow roses, irises, pink carnations, and lilies of the valley would create a beautiful and meaningful forgiveness bouquet that truly speaks from the heart.

Victorian era Language of Flowers

Looks Can Be Deceiving: an abridged introduction to the Victorian Language of Flowers

Dear Reader, I write to you this letter of introduction so that we may not set off on the wrong foot. You see, I’ve come to share my wealth of knowledge of the language of flowers. While my education has been steeped in English tradition, I assure you that this secular subject has roots in nearly every corner of the earth, so long as the climate permits. Thus there are many interpretations of what any one flower may mean. Being how we are sentimental animals we adore symbolism and assign it often without notice. Consider how difficult it is to get rid of some knick-knack you’ve come to own. It has no purpose yet it holds a dear place in your heart. You’ve assigned it meaning. Just one of the many symptoms of the human condition.

There is no telling which culture first used botanicals to convey a message, though I can say that the English were some of the last to develop their own language of flowers. The Eastern tradition was brought to Europe by Aubrey de la Mottraie who experienced this curious means of communication in Turkey. The Eastern language of flowers relied on the flower’s physical form to convey its meaning resulting in a lovely, flowery, ornamental language that was used for such occasions. The French followed a similar suit in the development of their flower dictionary.

The English however saw an opportunity to create a discreet and cunning new form of communication. Their dialect of the language of flowers was developed in a multifaceted way of deriving meaning. Some were assigned meaning based on their physicality. Others by their botanical, medicinal, or spiritual properties. Still others hold no resemblance to the flower itself but rather the linguistics of their names, by way of rhyming. There are some plants that have whole phrases assigned as their meaning. Meanwhile, the specific parts of certain plants could mean something quite different from one another, say the branch vs. the bud.

What is most important to note is that the English language of flowers was used to communicate messages of all types. Sure, messages of love and courtship were common suitors for such means of communication but messages of war, disdain, and danger were just as common. Allow me to also assure you that in my understanding of this rich dialect, looks can be deceiving. The beauty of a bouquet does not stand for the beauty in the breakdown of its contents. I do hope that you’ll not take it personally should you come to find out that your dear late grandma’s favorite flower represents “unrequited love”. I’m certain that you could find some other meaning that’s been attached to that flower —— just not the proper one. Like most English traditions, the Victorian language of flowers favors practicality as opposed to the overtly sentimental.

I hope that you’ve found this abridged origin story intriguing. Check back in at The Right Flowers for more meaningful bouquet recipes and insights!

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The Proper Flowers to Say “I Love You”

Greetings, my dear reader. It is with great pleasure that I have been asked to compose this article for you, on the fascinating topic of the language of flowers. In particular, we shall explore how the language of flowers was used to express love and affection, and how one could convey the powerful message of “I love you” through the subtle and beautiful language of blooms. (If you missed my abridged introduction to the Victorian Language of Flowers, you may find it here.) To recap, during the Victorian era, the language of flowers was a popular and widely used means of communication, especially among the upper classes. Flowers were assigned meanings and were used to express a wide range of emotions and sentiments, from love and admiration to jealousy and disdain. Indeed, the very act of giving and receiving flowers carried significant meaning, and was an art in itself.

To express love, the most important flower was, of course, the rose. The rose had a variety of meanings, depending on its color, and was one of the most popular flowers used to express love and affection. A red rose was the ultimate symbol of love, and it was said that the deeper the color, the deeper the love. Pink roses symbolized admiration and gratitude, while white roses were associated with purity and innocence. A yellow rose, on the other hand, was not used to express love, as it was associated with jealousy and infidelity.

But it was not just the rose that could be used to express love. Other flowers also had their own unique meanings. For example, the forget-me-not was a popular choice to express undying love and fidelity, while the lily of the valley was often used to express a return to happiness. The daisy was another popular choice, representing innocence and purity, while the carnation was associated with deep, passionate love.

So how does one say “I love you” using flowers? The answer is simple – with a bouquet of red roses. A dozen red roses, to be precise, was the ultimate expression of love and devotion, and would leave no doubt as to the sender’s intentions. If one wanted to be more subtle, one could add in other flowers with complementary meanings, such as forget-me-nots or lilies of the valley.

In conclusion, the language of flowers was a beautiful and intricate means of communication, especially when it came to expressing love and affection. The Victorian era aristocrats, with their love of all things elegant and refined, embraced this language wholeheartedly, and it remains a fascinating and charming aspect of our cultural heritage to this day. As one would assume from the language of flowers, there are hundreds of plants that represent words of love and devotion, as well as whole phrases. If you wish to curate a unique arrangement that symbolizes your precise feelings, it may very easily be done. It is my intent to share with you more personalized recipes in the coming articles.

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